* Never exclude people who don't follow these etiquette instructions.
* Always speak with kindness when having tea.
* Never swirl tea in a cup like you would wine in a glass.
* Do try a little of each dish offered at teatime.
* Spread the scone first with jam,then with cream.
* Do not place any extra items on the table, even eye glasses.
* Don't extend the pinkie when sipping tea.
* Never jiggle a tea bag by the string; it looks tacky and shows impatience.
* Don't put a used tea bag in your teacup saucer. Use a tea caddy.
* Never drain a tea bag by winding the string around a spoon.
* Never place a teaspoon on the saucer in front of the cup.
* Milk is poured in after the tea.
* Lemon is always put in the tea last.
* Lemon is always thinly sliced.
* Never remove a lemon once it's been added.
* Never use a spoon to press the lemon in the teacup.
* When stirring tea, make absolutely no noise with the flatware. Once          
   used, flatware should never touch the table again.
* Iced tea spoons are set to the outer right of the place setting.
* Do set teacup with handle at 4:00
Tea Etiquette